Veteran actress Joke Silva advised
couples in unhappy marriages to get a divorce, saying it was pointless
being in emotional hardship.
She said, “Long surviving marriage is not exceptional in this
industry. The thing is that, we are the ones that people know. Sony
Irabor and Betty; John Momoh and Shola; and Bayo Oduneye have been
married much longer. What of the late Justus and his wife? We have
marriages that have stood the test of time just like you will find in
other professions.
For me, since you love the person you get married to, both of you
should work at it together. See it as your main responsibility once you
get married.
Even before you get married, you should ask yourself, am I capable of
making this person my total responsibility? That, am I willing to
dedicate my time to making this person happy? It is a two way thing; it
is not only the woman that is supposed to make the man happy, it is also
for the man to make the woman happy. It is the two of you together and
when you do that, it will work out well.
But if not, I don`t support emotional hardship just because you want
to marry. God forbid bad thing! If it is not working, get out fast. If
you don’t know where you are going, you should know where you are coming
from.”
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