Dear friend please read an unedited memo from Nigeria’s Nollywood actress Stella Damasus to Nigerian Bloggers and Journalists on alleged husband snatching saga.
Stella Damasus speaks >>>>I have been trending for the past two days now. Day one was about people wishing me well and praying for me on my birthday. Day two is now filled with gossip, scandals and all sorts, but that is as far as the so called journalists and bloggers are concerned. As far as I am concerned I had a blast on my birthday and I will not allow other human beings steal my joy regardless.
I choose
to enjoy my life because I know I deserve it. Nobody went through my own trying
times with me and I did not go through any with others.
When God
decides to bless me, turn my mourning to dancing, turn my tears to laughter and
turn my anger to happiness, no man on earth can change it or spoil it.
Truth is,
I laughed when I saw some of the blogs and websites quoting and saying things
they know absolutely nothing about. Writing things they have heard without
concrete evidence, ghosts that cannot show their faces and ask direct
questions. But they believe and think that they can wake up one day and decide
people’s fate and destiny. Unfortunately they are made to feel important
because people hate to read positive things and achievements, but give them
juicy gossip and all of a sudden you become the most popular writer who has
gist on everybody.
I realized
that when I write blogs and articles about important information,
encouragement, education and positive things, only twenty percent out of a
hundred actually read it and leave comments. The other eighty percent jump at
the gossip and scandals and then start to ask me stupid questions. These are
people who have not communicated with me in ages but all of a sudden they feel
the need to profess undying friendship and a listening ear. The fact that they
believe I have the time or energy to respond to the most trivial issues baffles
me.
Let me
repeat myself in case some of these people missed it. “I really do not care
what you say or write, the truth is who God has blessed no man can curse” , and
if you believe that trying to turn a wonderful birthday into a global gossip
game will make me feel bad then I am so sorry this Stella is not as stupid as
you think”-Source:Naij
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